Daily Text Community: From Isolated Despair in My Car to Collective Healing
My only companion was a worn journal. Though it looked ordinary, those pages became a sacred space where I could unleash my fears, regrets, and yearnings.
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This post is divided into two sections. Firstly, it delves into the workings of my daily text community and provides sign-up details. Secondly, it recounts the origin story of how my daily text community came to be.
Here’s what people are saying about this transformative community:
“Thank you for your texts. While they may apply to so many people who are hurting, they are far more than anything as generic as a meme or a horoscope or the like. They hit right in the gut and the heart because - honestly it's hard to trust anyone you find on social media - everything you say feels like it's genuine. And for those of us who *get it* it really does come across that way to me. So, thank you.”
“You enlighten my soul everyday just by being you. Your journey really hits a special place within me!! You have made me realize I can do this, it won't be easy, but i can do it. Thank you for each and everything you do Ryan i really do appreciate you.”
“Yep. Opened a whole ass business with that hope. I'm a hairdresser and the amount of clients I've helped get started in healing is just the best thing.”
“Thank you for your dedication to these messages, l've been going through a really hard time lately & it seems they always come when I really need some kind words. You're an absolute angel.”
About the Daily Texts
In a world where each day presents new challenges, having a beacon of positivity can make a world of difference.
How does it work?
By subscribing to my daily text service, you receive a carefully crafted message every day, designed to inspire, uplift, and motivate you. These aren’t just any messages; they are personal communications directly from myself.
Subscribing is a Breeze!
To get started, send a simple text saying “Hi” to +1 (256) 685-4443.
And here’s the golden part - this service is absolutely free!
Whether it's that little nudge to kickstart your day or a ray of positivity in challenging times, my daily messages offer a solution. They aim to foster healing, happiness, and hope, empowering you to face life’s hurdles with a renewed spirit.
Why Wait? Dive Right In!
Join today and let these daily doses of inspiration be your guiding light.
However, please be informed that this service is currently exclusive to the United States and Canada. International users can find a way to access my quotes further down this page.
What to Expect:
Daily thoughts
Introspective questions
Genuine attempts to respond
Messages at varied hours (11am to 7pm EST)
Curious About the Messages?
Here's a Glimpse:
“To love oneself is to truly understand the depth of your own soul. It's the foundation upon which all other love is built. As you nurture self-love, you open your heart to the endless wonders of life.”
“I see you, in all your authenticity and strength. Your journey and experiences are valid, and you are truly appreciated.”
“Always keep in mind that not everyone will applaud or embrace your journey of healing and growth. At times, your progress may act as a mirror, reflecting their own stagnation or challenges they haven't yet faced.”
Easy Unsubscribe Process
I honor individual preferences. If you ever feel my messages aren't aligned with your needs, unsubscribing is simple and straightforward.
A quick text reply with the word “STOP” ensures you're off our list, no questions asked.
*This is NOT a Replacement for Therapy*
While the messages aim to sow seeds of hope and healing, they aren't a replacement for professional therapy. If you're grappling with deeper mental health challenges, please consult a certified healthcare professional.
A Note on Replies
Though I cherish each subscriber and strive to respond, due to the sheer volume, individual replies aren't guaranteed. Rest assured, each message is sent with the hope of adding a touch of positivity to your day.
Here’s what people are saying about this transformative community:
“It's sooo crazy how your messages match my life almost daily and how they always resonate with me and my feelings, thoughts and circumstances! I appreciate your wise words, wisdom and advice more than you will ever know.”
“Your shadow work has literally changed my life!!!”
“So it's kinda funny the way a lot of your messages align with my day like a horoscope. Feels very kismet. Today's doesnt but it's such a great message! it really stands strong in my everyday life of always second guessing good things. I really appreciate you and everything you do for so many of us. Your daily messages really help me to ground myself. Thank you so much for everything you do.”
“I don't know if you see this response but these little are literally like tidbits of therapy for me”
The Birth of an Idea
I clearly remember nights when I felt like a shadow of myself, alone in my car, with the biting winds of Hamilton as a stark contrast. Those winds didn't just pierce my clothing; they seemed to slice through my essence, mirroring the deep emotional impact of a pivotal betrayal. It felt as though each breeze was a reminder of how deeply my spirit had been broken.
The moon was a faint glow in the night sky, casting an eerie light on Hamilton's deserted streets. Every road and alley appeared to hold echoes of sadness, mirroring the chaos within me.
My car, which should have been a sanctuary, felt more like a prison of solitude, its confines merging with the blur of my tears. The clock on the dashboard marked the passing time, each tick a sharp reminder of my isolation and the errors that brought me to such a lonely place.
The betrayal had swept through my life like a storm, a mixture of passion and deception that left destruction in its path. My heart, once full of life and optimism, was now in ruins, broken into countless pieces scattered on the ground of remorse.
During this tough time, my phone, which used to be a source of constant activity, now remained quiet next to me, its screen off and unwelcoming. The absence of notifications became a glaring indication of my solitude, highlighting how disconnected I had become from everyone else. I would look at it, hoping for any form of communication that might lift me from my low spirits.
On one particularly bleak night, as the chill from the car's seats seemed to penetrate deep within me, an insight dawned on me. Could it be possible that I wasn't the only one feeling this isolated? There had to be someone else out there, equally in need of a sign or a word that could brighten their dark moment.
Motivated by this thought, I decided to establish a daily messaging community. My goal was straightforward: to share an uplifting quote each day, something to bring hope or provoke thought. If my messages could reach even one person, reminding them of their connection to others, then my efforts would be meaningful.
And so, with trembling fingers and a heavy heart, I sent out my first quote.
"Even in our darkest hours, there's a light that shines within. All we need is to find it."
This initiative was initially more for my own solace than for others, serving as a small light of optimism amidst my own challenging times.
However, unexpectedly, responses began to flood in. Individuals from various backgrounds reached out, sharing their experiences, their struggles, and their aspirations. Some discussed their heartaches, others their unfulfilled ambitions, yet all expressed thankfulness for that small daily communication, a gentle reminder that they were not navigating their difficulties alone.
My phone, once a symbol of my solitude, became a hub of meaningful connections. With each passing night, the harsh winds of Hamilton grew softer and less piercing. They no longer symbolized the depth of my distress but became gentle hints of possibility, carrying the voices and appreciation of many people whose lives were brightened by those simple messages.
Out of my personal low points, a collective emerged. A gathering of individuals, each searching for a flicker of optimism, a signal that even in our most challenging times, there's still a beacon of hope to be discovered. The messages evolved beyond mere text; they became vital connections, shining lights leading others through their toughest periods.
As the group expanded, it became clear that not all might wish to or have the means to subscribe to daily messages. My goal was to make sure nobody was excluded from this path of optimism and recovery. This realization prompted me to broaden the scope of these daily encouragements.
For those who can't sign up, or simply choose not to receive text notifications, I made sure that the same uplifting quotes were available in the Notes section of my Substack Newsletter.
But the digital age is ever-evolving, and I wanted to embrace every avenue that could help spread positivity. That led me to Threads, the newest social media platform. On Threads, each quote found a home.
Every day these messages of hope will be accessible to anyone, anywhere, any time.
The transition from solitary nights in a car in Hamilton to creating a worldwide network underscored a critical insight: Even the simplest communication can spark significant transformation. It has the power to connect us, mend our emotional scars, and brighten the least lit parts of our existence.
If you're seeking a consistent infusion of optimism, I warmly invite you to become part of our expanding circle. Whether it’s by receiving the texts, joining the Substack newsletter, or following the journey on Threads, let’s start this path of healing and exploration together.
Remember, no matter how solitary you might feel, you are never truly alone. In this community, we support each other, uplifting one another with each message. The world is filled with opportunities, and with every daily inspiration, we move closer to unlocking our fullest potential.
Here’s what people are saying about this transformative community:
“Reading your posts is a gift. Each day is a new level of transformation for me, overcoming the past illusion and it's beliefs, emotions and thoughts, of my own creation.”
“This message could easily save someone's life.”
“I appreciate your words and recommend signing up for your texts to everyone!”
“I lost my partner about a month before you lost your grandfathers and I just wanted to thank you for the messages you send. I am sure others have told you, but I am personally so grateful and wanted to express my gratitude as well. Signing up for your service has been such a blessing. Thank you.”